#1 Nice Guy Mistake Men Make With Women | Text A Girl Now

# #1 Nice Guy Mistake Men Make With Women

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There’s an amazing girl in your life you’re friends with, but you don’t know what to do to make her become MORE than friend.

You’re confused because you’re getting mixed signals from her.

Sometimes she gives you signs of interest, but other times she’s just cold.

But you feel like you have to do SOMETHING…

As you ponder your next move, you must beware of the BIG mistake the media lies to you about.

This deadly blunder is probably the #1 nice guy mistake men make with women.

See, the typical advice you hear in the media, and the guidance of family and friends is to “just tell her how you feel”…

But right now I’m going tell you: Don’t it! If you do the “confession” of your feelings to a girl who isn’t ready, it’s the quickest ticket to the “I don’t feel the same way, but let’s just be friends” speech.

And then it’ll get “weird” afterwards.

I mean it’s understandable.

I get it… because I’ve been there!

When you get a big intense crush on a girl, and she doesn’t know it, all this tension builds up inside of you that you want to release somehow.

So you think of ways making the big bold move on her and telling her how you feel.

You fantasize that if you just tell her how you feel, she’ll realize how much you like her, and then she’ll *magically* like you too!

However, that’s NOT how attraction works.

Many potential relationships NEVER HAPPEN because men fail to understand how attraction works.

You don’t create attraction by just telling her you’re attracted, but by sparking her emotions with your masculine character.

Instead of doing the big bold declaration of your feelings for her.

Move things forward by getting her to meet up with you and properly escalating.

The act of inviting her to meet up with you alone already suggests you’re interested in her.

## When to Invite Her Out (Signs She Wants to Spend Time With you)

Here’s a big sign of attraction I want to make you aware of.

It’s called “The Investment Principle”.

How much are you investing compared to her? How long are your texts compared to her texts?

Take a quick glance at your phone and notice…

Are you are texting way more than she is? Or is she also giving you long replies?

Now you don’t have to go crazy counting words and make your texts less than hers 100% of the time, but if she’s sending you long replies with lots of “lols”, “hahas”, and emojis…

This is a great sign that she is investing and that she is interested.

That’s when you should move things forward by suggesting the meet.

Now I know what you’re thinking: “What if she says no to meeting up?… I’m worried that I’ll never have her!”

Well, that’s why it’s so important to not be so focused on just one girl.

Go out and meet more girls, get little crushes on more than one girl so that if you get rejected by one, you have other options. (And it helps you avoid making the big nice guy mistake men make with women).

When your mind thinks there is only ONE GIRL for you, it’s DANGEROUS.

Your feelings are bound to her validation, and your self-esteem is a slave to how she treats you.

Don’t do this to yourself. Value yourself by asserting that you’re a quality man with options and go for other girls as well.

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